I been waiting for VBA San Diego to processed my Aid & Attendance for 3 years, I am paying the caregiver out of my 100% Service Connection. Also, I submitted for the Caregiver Program 60 days ago, with no answer.
If you've been waiting for any action to process for 3 years I'd have to say that something has gone wrong. Delays are common at VA, a 3 year delay isn't. Get in touch with these folks and enlist their help https://www.calvet.ca.gov/